Sometime it is best to accept it is too much. When my life was too busy to keep a reasonably tidy house, I ended up carving out one room that I kept clean and organized. This could even be just one small corner or a desk in your house. I am really bothered by clutter, but having one place I could retreat to for working or just to clear my head was helpful. Hang in there. When life slows down, there will be more time for a clean home.