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Devittraisedto2 t1_j23bfj8 wrote

This isn't applicable to every single person you know since it varies.

It's not as if one is good and one is bad, both can also be good and both can also be bad.

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hefixeshercable t1_j23dhe2 wrote

Are you new to conflict? In my experience, there are many sides to ant story. Bad things may be the truth, to which the nice person has committed. Your statement simply does not make sense.

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Big_Cut_3000 OP t1_j23e6t0 wrote

I didn't say bad things were done. There are of course two sides. I'm saying you will hear worse things about the person who doesn't speak ill of the other. This is obvious but not always considered.

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hefixeshercable t1_j23fyr7 wrote

I disagree. Conflict is too complex to simply analyze statements made to determine guilt. Is this an example of some bible concept? Because, it has a do unto others vibe

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mercifulcrocodile t1_j23bki7 wrote

Not necessarily, you're more likely to hear bad things about the one in the wrong. The one in the right may feel anger at how they've been treated.

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mercifulcrocodile t1_j23ddkj wrote

I actually think either can be true and making a judgement based on who is speaking Ill of the other is bad advice.

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keepthetips t1_j23bbx6 wrote

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sephitor_ t1_j24qr6p wrote

That's a load of crap.

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cha0sbuster t1_j2aw28g wrote

as The Nice One being targeted by a vindictive roommate because I don't fight back: Ain't That The Fuckin Truth

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