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BobertoLinguini t1_j6nj7i7 wrote

What? No, they'd be in a relationship with you if that was the case. Go lift.

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MysticMoteToter t1_j6owtk7 wrote

Right I read this and thought I was having a stroke. Maybe if you think they're the one who got away but hey. There's a reason

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Perfect_Variation_ t1_j6ngzkr wrote

Wow, that's a bit of a stretch - but we appreciate the sentiment! We're sure that whoever you're talking about has their own reasons for their actions, and we hope it all works out for the best.

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AriKay01 t1_j6o6lhw wrote

I’m thinking they did not respect the relationship so the person had to walk away. Had a friend that kept saying I should date them, instead of my spouse, so I had to walk away. They were fun, and a good friend, but they couldn’t accept that I wasn’t interested in dating them and it made the friendship very uncomfortable.

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CokeMooch t1_j6osd98 wrote

Holy shit. Slice me off a piece of your ego, I could use the confidence fr.

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Fepl31 t1_j6ntpa5 wrote

Erh... Not always... But sometimes, for sure.

Many cases are of people who are in a relationship where their partner doesn't give them enough freedom to talk to other people. Either by explicitly saying so, or by manipulating their feelings in a way that they feel bad if they talk to others.

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Garthar22 t1_j6p0qfw wrote

I stop talking to people when I’m in a relationship because I have less time for other people and I don’t need as much social contact as when I’m single.

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Flowofinfo t1_j6p1hzp wrote

What kind of made up silliness is this? I don’t even know what it’s supposed to mean

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American_PP t1_j6orb6c wrote

Maybe. I was getting hit on a lot by this woman in Thailand I have no interest in. She followed my facebook and would comment all the time. One day, I saw she went to Germany and was dating some old German man and I simply "liked" the post......very very quickly she blocked me on social media.

Not like I care, but it made me laugh a bit. Well, maybe it had nothing to do about liking me, probably she was just mining for gold.

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TigerlilyBlanche t1_j6p0zr6 wrote

I stopped talking to a lot of people when I got with my bf. They were all assholes who I hated.

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tximinoman t1_j6phfod wrote

Or because you're a creep who can't understand what "no" means.

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Foxesnflowers t1_j6nw1o9 wrote

I honestly just forget interacting with other people when I'm in a relationship.. I don't need much to fulfil my social needs.. And it's nice when my friends forgive me when I'm single again...

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Personal-Tip-8876 t1_j6p7rit wrote

how many times should they forgive you though?

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Foxesnflowers t1_j6pekaw wrote

So far, 3 times... And it's not even because I'm seeing my partner 24/7. I just don't have the need to repeat the same thing over and over to a lot of people..

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