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chicken_noodle_salad t1_j7xu87e wrote

I’m sure people mean well, but this baby has a family and a history and heritage. Please consider donating resources instead.

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notunek t1_j7xvxw5 wrote

That's what I decided to do instead of looking away. The news is all so heartbreaking.

I was planning to buy an area rug for my bedroom but made a donation to Doctors without Borders instead. I'm still sad but at least I did something even if it was not huge.

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-businessskeleton- t1_j7xxnua wrote

I would totally adopt her. But as people are saying, she has family and country. We're some random couple on the other side of the world.

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Shot_Presence_8382 t1_j7xzt0m wrote

I looked EXACTLY like this when I was a baby. I'm also Turkish/mixed ethnicity. This poor sweet girl and so many people who have suffered 💔

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grand305 t1_j7y51w2 wrote

They are saying “let’s adopt a kid half way around the world” and not “oh, we can get one local and and maybe one state over” . 🤦‍♀️🤦🤦‍♂️ the entitlement of some people.

If you can donate time and resources to your local charities that support local adoption instead.

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housevil t1_j7yes8x wrote

Many hungry people after that devastating earthquake.

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BobsReddit_ t1_j7yy4r1 wrote

There's prolly thousands of babies that need adoption - but haven't been through an earthquake. It'd be nice if they got adopted too

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dpezpoopsies t1_j7z6qb8 wrote

I was wondering if it was because this is a newborn. Lots of people who adopt want a baby, but most kids in foster care in need of adoption are not babies anymore. No shade on folks who adopt, there are reasons and I'm not here to judge, it's just the reality.

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-businessskeleton- t1_j818gbf wrote

It's the tragedy and visibility of this one that's created the response I think. In our own countries they are invisible and for whatever reason it's made an extremely expensive thing to be a part of.

I understand the process and caution involved but not the costs.

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sweetpeapickle t1_j81aa0m wrote

Perhaps because they're looking at the destruction....My nephews were adopted from Manila over 30 years ago, not exactly the best of places then. And only my one nephew had his mum, but she was dying, he was 2, & wanted him to go to a good home.

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grand305 t1_j81aij2 wrote

I just say their are plenty of kids needing adoption, if local is not your thing sure, but it’s the family that has to give over rights and such. This child in the article has a family or at least relatives that want to take care of her/him.

Adoption is great if you can afford it. having a baby naturally is hella expensive (usa), I would if I could adoption, but I would weather give to a charity to help off set the financial part to help people find their ideal baby/child/forever home.

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thatfreshjive t1_j82exuf wrote

Specifically this baby? Fuck those clout-mongers. They aren't "coming from a good place"

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