Jonherenow t1_iwi1rhq wrote on November 15, 2022 at 8:06 PM

How is this offensive and “sucks” isn’t? Sucks is a sex act and is derogatory as a homophobic or misogynistic insult. Not claiming right or wrong, I just don’t understand the why one and not the other.

Freshiiiiii t1_iwiq8v9 wrote on November 15, 2022 at 10:46 PM

I guess sucks is just more normalized and more removed from its original meaning.

Jonherenow t1_iwj1ndq wrote on November 16, 2022 at 12:09 AM

True dat

RagePieFace t1_iwjgokk wrote on November 16, 2022 at 2:07 AM

Try thinking of what sloppy seconds actually means. Try using it to refer to your sister Ina normal family conversation to refer to her value as a person. It is just not appropriate to devalue a woman like that in my opinion. It is about respect. Reflect on that.

JerryVsNewman t1_iwkntny wrote on November 16, 2022 at 9:56 AM

well it could just mean sloppy seconds as in having seconds in a meal after the food has gotten cold and sloppy...which I'm fairly sure is where it came from and just got adapted to have a sexual meaning

RagePieFace t1_iwntw5b wrote on November 17, 2022 at 12:38 AM

Maybe you're right. I just haven't heard a lot of males in male dominated sports use a reference like that to refer to leftover meatloaf. It would be a weird thing for to hear my Mom telling me she didn't want the sloppy seconds from Thanksgiving or something like that. Seriously, his smirk afterwards tells me and I think most people being honest with themselves that he was using the term in an indecent manner. It is okay for him to say that he did but just not be a little bizatch and say 'Oh, I didn't know the meaning of that phrase....'. Give me and everyone a break. Own your words loser.