Submitted by datgai_boi t3_yis5e4 in relationship_advice
okay, usually i don’t post about my issues on here, but this is the second time this has happened and i still don’t know how to deal with it. i’m m 17 in high school. my boyfriend 18, is in college. we have been dating for about half a year now. 4 of those months we were in person, but the last two have been really difficult for me. i really wasn’t too happy about doing long distance at first and the more it goes on the more i don’t like it. before we started dating, he seemed like a completely different person. he seemed so mellowed out and relaxed and that’s something that i really liked about him. the more we started talking , the more i realized that we really want to live completely different lives. whenever he wants to talk to me, i’ve noticed i am less interested and less happy when i talk to him. i thought that the issue was just the long distance , however i went to visit him just about a months ago. it was just so draining being there and pretending. if you’re still reading this you’re probably like, oh just break up, whatever. but i am REALLY bad at that. i still really care for him still, but i just don’t want to date him anymore. SOS
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