He’s made clear that he’s not interested in your feelings. Do you want to be in a relationship where you’re treated this way?

You say you’re at a loss of what to do, but most people would know exactly what to do: leave.

Being insulted, demeaned, and name-called is a pretty easy dealbreaker for most people.

You get to decide how you want to be treated. If someone is treating you poorly, you either choose to accept it or you stop spending time with that person.

Stop trying to convince him that he’s being hurtful and just tell him, “I will not tolerate being talked to like this, and if you do it one more time I will leave.” And then you have to mean it.