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MckittenMan t1_j6lo2r2 wrote

Cold and harsh turkey.

Hey, I came to tell you we're breaking up today. This is not a discussion. I am letting you know that I don't want to be in this relationship anymore.

I am sorry, its nothing personal, but for me to express heal, I will be removing you from social media and blocking your number.

Thank you for the memories we shared, but this isn't a working for me.

Best of luck!

And you never look back.

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Electrical-Top-6229 t1_j6lolza wrote

Problem is he owes me thousands 😭😭

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MckittenMan t1_j6lsddf wrote

Do you have proof he owes you thousands?

Lawyer up?

Hell, even a bluff on a lawyer will strict fear.

"I have been talking to my lawyer, and he believes it will be best if we settle this out of the courts, we both would end up spending more money on lawyers than what you actually owe me. So if you want to go to court over this, fine by mine, just know that you will have lawyer fees on top of what you owe me"

A friend of mine pulled that card and it worked surprisingly.

But really.... is that a reason to stick around in a shit relationship?

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Electrical-Top-6229 t1_j6lwjfd wrote

No, You’re right. I might as well just block him and lose that money. Who cares, I make good money anyway. I can always remake that. He’s a pig tbh. I don’t even know why I’m with him.

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Amazing_Cabinet1404 t1_j6lnt0z wrote

In college my boyfriend got super controlling, into heavy drinking, cheating. I pretended everything was ok and the broke my lease at the end of the semester and just moved.

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Electrical-Top-6229 t1_j6lojaz wrote

He cheated on me and then gaslighted me into thinking he didn’t and I came back, and now that I brought that back he still denies it. AND I’M STILL DOUBTING MYSELF!

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