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dsmy t1_j44ee7k wrote
Sounds like he's trying to process.
Subconsciously, he's probably worried about ruining your life by not being "man" enough.
Homie needs a vacation and to get out of a mental rut.
shadesofwolves t1_j44fgnf wrote
He said it was a nightmare, and it was just that. Nothing more.
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melancholicangie t1_j44fg94 wrote
So he’s probably got some unresolved feelings about inadequacy, you said he’s under a lot of stress. Dreams and nightmares are often manifestations of unresolved images or thoughts. Assigning a lot of meaning to a dream is pretty risky- especially if it isn’t your own dream.
Granted, the nightmares’ content was disturbing. I’m surprised he shared those details with you, it would seem to indicate he trusts you and found the nightmare bizarre and disturbing enough to discuss it.
There would be valid reasons for concern in my estimation, if his attitude in relaying the dream or how he treated you during your conversation was “off”. Did you come away from the conversation feeling like it was a threat? Did he enjoy your reaction to the nightmare? If he seemed to be blaming you for having this dream in any way, I would see this incident as a red flag.
If he simply described this nightmare to you, and was clearly upset by the content and seeking solace from you as a partner- I would rise above the obvious jarring effect and try to console him. Perhaps even make a small joke to lighten the mood, but if he was distraught by this dream, it seems likely he is looking for comfort from you after a traumatic dream and difficult time in his life.
Keep your eyes open, but don’t assume the worst of him unless he’s giving you more reason than the content of a nightmare.
TrickyTimeBomb t1_j44tjvb wrote
I didn't feel off, I was honestly more worried about what it meant with our relationship -- If anything. I'm definitely not concerned for my own safety w him or anything like that, my bad for making it seem that way in the post. He would never lay a hand on me, he's as gentle as can be. Your insight is very accurate and I appreciate it.
Van_GOOOOOUGH t1_j44nni8 wrote
Last night I dreamt someone was laying on a table in an ice cream shop and I was trying to murder her by wrapping her to the table with Saran wrap. Then someone approached and I tried to explain "it's not what it looks like," I'm an innocent sweet girl and there's a logical explanation for this 😆
Next dream I'd just had sex with someone I knew IRL who I'd NEVER want to have sex with, but in the dream we were both happy & satisfied, then he said "Here take this," tried to hand me money and I felt insulted, "I'm not a prostitute! I did that because I WANTED to..."
Anyway dreams are weird, they rarely make sense at face value, and rarely should be interpreted literally.
ThomasPEBradyJR t1_j44szsn wrote
Dexter is that you? Lol
Van_GOOOOOUGH t1_j453a4b wrote
Sorry I don't watch TV so I don't understand your reference.
ThomasPEBradyJR t1_j45s1i9 wrote
Dexter wraps people to table with saran wrap before killing them lol
Van_GOOOOOUGH t1_j472egy wrote
Really?? What the heck kinda weird dream did I have, this was already a thing??
ThomasPEBradyJR t1_j474mxj wrote
Theres a link to a picture hahaha was it similar?
Van_GOOOOOUGH t1_j475kat wrote
So weird. I wonder if this is low-key some sort of satanic ritualistic sacrificial ceremony that occurred to me in my subconsciousness, see Hollywood is apparently doing it and they're all satanists but I've never heard of such a thing, maybe it's a vibe. Anyway In my dream we were all dressed in soft pink & blue pastel colors because I 'm a girl and that's how my dreams are
ThomasPEBradyJR t1_j478yx5 wrote
I dont think its that deep haha
AcrobaticSource3 t1_j44pyjz wrote
At least he called it a nightmare and not a good dream
blue_operative t1_j44v6md wrote
He called it a nightmare meaning he didn’t like it
No_Love_1353 t1_j44j1jw wrote
You haven’t been pushing him to choke you during sexy time, have you?
RudeSprinkles1240 t1_j44ulfa wrote
Night before last, I had a dream that I had a wild fire sweep over me. I was in the fire.
I think my face was burning from the differin gel I put on it. Maybe your boyfriend has sleep apnea.
ThomasPEBradyJR t1_j44doox wrote
Its just a dream