Then again, I remember some of Roald Dahl's books being quite gruesome at times...

So he's getting off with a slap on the wrist (and face).

Look at the woke crowd making a mountain out of a molehill. What else are these kids supposed to do if they can't afford to buy lemons for a lemonade stand?

/s

Unfortunately there are a lot of married men on the dating apps, and it only gets worse as you get older. If you're single long enough you will accidentally meet some of them, just because sometimes you forget to ask, or it seems obvious. Some conversations start out different so you forget some of those initial questions.

Ultimately, he cheated. You never promised anything to anyone, so you have nothing to feel guilty about.

Not yet, but thanks for the suggestion! I'll bring it up with the vet if the Feliway doesn't work.

We just tried a course of Alphazium for 2 months and that helped but I can't keep him on that forever, even if he's really good at taking pills. So for now we're trying Feliway. Fingers crossed.

I have one like that. He's very sociable, everyone comments on how beautiful and cuddly he is. His fur looks great. Except his belly. It took me a while to accept that it could be stress. But there's a really aggressive cat that appeared in the neighbourhood. The vet prescribed some pills for his nerves that helped. We're still trying to figure out a long term solution for that cat...

Usually a response to stress. Nervous cats tend to groom too much as it's comforting, which causes bald spots.

I mainly read in bed and have bad insomnia. It used to be that I would get so into a book the sun would be up before I realised what time it is. Nowadays, I fall asleep while reading, sometimes quite quickly. I love my Kobo for that reason. I often wake up in the morning and fish it out of the bed without having lost my page and without sleeping with the light on.