Yeah this. It's a meme but not really a true one except among a specific crowd that if you're not already a part of, you're probably not socializing with much.

I can't give you a specific answer, only to say that your best bet is likely going to be a low-key neighborhood place on like a Tuesday or Wednesday.

Also maybe consider getting into a social sports league (dodgeball, softball, bocce, karaoke, whatever).