You need to do more digging or hire a private investigator. Signs are there.

Here’s my perspective, end it. She’s still hung up on her ex and you shouldn’t be competing for her affections with this guy. Move on.

Hard to tell what’s going on with her. Maybe she’s introverted and needs some alone time every now and then. Or she’s been hurt in the past and taking it slow. Just roll with it, when she wants to define the relationship she’ll let you know.

She’s done with you. Just let her go, she’s made it clear she’s not interested.

I don think you did anything wrong. She should apologize to you.

I agree with your position. I wouldn’t move in at all. Sounds messy.

Sorry you are going through this. I went through the same growing up. Unfortunately, I have no advice to give you. My wife despised my Dad when I told her before we were married.

At a minimum you are crossing the line. You’re playing with fire as sooner or later you’re going to cross the line.

Tell the other guy. You would want to know if it was you.

At the minimum your wife is having an emotional affair. You need to stand up for yourself and put an end to this or find your way out of the marriage.

Went from an 8plus to the mini. The actual screen size is almost the same and the mini is way lighter. No regrets.