sonia72quebec

sonia72quebec t1_j5ulijt wrote

I think it's more than normal to be in shock and to be grieving. Your family needs to see you this way. Emotions are part of life and it's ok to be sad sometimes. If not they may think his death doesn't bother you at all.

What helps me get thru the death of my pets is to think of all the good memories with them.

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sonia72quebec t1_j2fw7va wrote

If you give to the human society, make sure your donation goes for pet care (vaccine, sterilization...) and not euthanasia or luxury items like new cars or furniture. I volunteer at a cat shelter and when we get big donations (for us 1K is enormous) we spend all of it very wisely and with frugality. With a big organisation like them, make sure they treat your money with the same care.

You need a lawyer for a reputable firm to set this up. He/She will act as your executor and will sell your assets, pay your debts (if you have some) and give what's left after taxes to them. It's a long process. it took my Mom over a year to take care of her Cousin assets (and she didn't have a lot of money).

Have you also thought of a scholarship fund for Vet school for underprivileged students? That could also be a great legacy.

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sonia72quebec OP t1_j2fjn4l wrote

We had one a month ago from another shelter. They said he was "too agressive" and that he bite someone. Lol! He wasn't even 2 pounds ! He's a wild one, who wanted immediately to play with the big cats; he wasn't scared at all. He's getting adopted soon, I hope they don't have any precious breakable things in their home :)

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sonia72quebec OP t1_j2fijg9 wrote

We often have news from our cats and they are all spoiled rotten. There's one who has his own couch, some have their own room! We had a couple of people build (or buy) a big catio so they can go outside safely. The big ginger one, Jeremy, was a semi feral outdoor cat and it took some time to catch him. Now he loves inside living. He never even try to go outside. It's like he retired from street living. (His 2 brothers did the same)

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sonia72quebec OP t1_j2fh37i wrote

I’m downtown Québec city Canada. People who adopt here have to promesse to keep the cat inside. We specialize in feral cats and we are kind of tired to have to treat injured cats. Last winter we had one with frostbites so severe he needed an operation to close the wounds.

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