I think it works because if you love a narcissist and lose them, it’s typically better for you, hopefully you learn something, and you choose better partners next time.
I think the idea holds true for the same reason that it’s true that you get better through failing at things and learning how to do them right.
If you never loved before, you won’t know what to seek or avoid.
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I think it works because if you love a narcissist and lose them, it’s typically better for you, hopefully you learn something, and you choose better partners next time.
I think the idea holds true for the same reason that it’s true that you get better through failing at things and learning how to do them right.
If you never loved before, you won’t know what to seek or avoid.