He/she is whittling stakes.

Excessive jealousy is a major red flag.

Immediately saying they love you and trying to push multiple romantic gestures in a row instead of letting your relationship grow naturally

When they manipulate you into thinking something that you weren’t thinking.

That she gets made at you for jerking off

When he asks you to kill yourselves together and says he has a plan and sticks out his hand hoping you would take it

Dating me is a HUGE red flag.