Recently moved from Catonsville to Ellicott City and absolutely love it. Schools are great, but home prices are higher as a result. Really can’t go wrong with Columbia, we’re always there visiting friends, going to events, and going to the movies when we can. Merriweather is great, but we really only go a handful of times every year. I personally prefer Ellicott City bc the Korean and ethnic restaurants and groceries are outstanding. Columbia has a bit more suburbia feel imho where some of the neighborhoods look truly identical. Just my two cents. Good luck with your search!