You have to consider the hours you work and where in NYC you work. I’ve been doing the commute for over 20 yrs (mostly in the Bronx with a short stint in Manhattan) I leave around 5:30 and return 2-3pm . The trip is bearable but not without its frustrations. Taking the train to the Bronx doesn’t make sense time wise and even working in Manhattan would of required the shuttle, another train and a long walk, didn’t make sense time wise. What I’ve recommended to a few people is to stay in a local hotel and do the trip for the week and see if it’s something you want to do. FYI I’m in Milford a tad further.