Submitted by ZombieIntrovert t3_yieo7k in Connecticut
Levlove t1_iuiurlg wrote
I think where you’re coming from is a helpful thing to know, because then we can address what is different here vs where you are. If you’re coming from southern CA, you may find that living here feels cheap but the weather is rough. If you’re coming from MS, you’ll feel like everything is expensive but I promise it’s worth it. If you’re coming from MT, you’ll feel like everything is close together. It’s just very hard to make comparisons without knowing where you’re from, because the US is so varied!
ZombieIntrovert OP t1_iuiw7vm wrote
We have lived all over the place so I was just looking for generalized suggestions for that area. I understand cities and their suburbs are more expensive and that’s typically where the jobs are. If the town is at least big enough to have a Walmart it will work for us lol I know places in my home state that I would never advise anyone to move a family to be it for crime rate, racism, schools, being far from civilization, or any number of reasons. I just don’t know the first thing about that area as I’ve never been further east than Illinois.
Levlove t1_iuj1cj9 wrote
You can drive from the top of the state to the bottom in an hour, and other than the far rural Northwest and Northeast corners of the state you won’t find yourself far from civilization. Education overall is considered good when looking at the US as a whole. There are big wealth disparities between the rich towns and the poor towns, and education follows because the property taxes in the towns are what fund the school systems. Rich town = high taxes = highly funded school system. It’s easy if you picked an area to look into the school systems in different towns. I included a list of sundown towns in a comment further down where someone didn’t know the term. Some of the towns I nodded at, other ones I raised my eyebrows at because I am surprised. I think racism in general is certainly quieter up here than other states, and tends to be more systemic than personal. You won’t find people casually throwing around the N word, so a large part of the population doesn’t think it exists here.
The culture in the northeast is “kind but not nice”, as the saying goes. People here are often viewed as being cold and standoffish in comparison to just about anywhere else. We embrace it and you will see many jokes about just wanting to be left the heck alone. But people are genuinely kind - New England is the type of place where you can get a flat tire and someone will stop and change it for you without saying more than 5 words and just be on their way. It’s not personal, we’re usually just either too cold or too hot.
There’s a funny post on here from the past week that kind of lays out what each county in CT is like, I’ll see if I can find it and tag you. The state is super small in comparison to any other you have been in. Honestly, you might as well consider CT/MA/RI if you’re looking to come to the area.
ZombieIntrovert OP t1_iujefbr wrote
Thank you. You’ve been very helpful. The whole kind but leave me alone attitude is right up my alley lol
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