I moved to the New Haven area about 8 years ago (originally from West Hartford), and if it wasn’t for gyms and a local job that I held then I’m not sure how I would’ve met friends outside of my husband (he’s from New Haven). You and I are the same age, and I fully understand the need to have your own group of trusted friends. How far are you from New Haven? I’d be happy to meet up or share some of the places I’d suggest you check out.