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thebankofdeane t1_is3j9bb wrote

This has nothing to do with Futurology, try r/advice

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wicklowdave t1_is3m9o7 wrote

when you meant to click /r/Fuckery but accidentally clicked /r/Futurology

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beezlebub33 t1_is3mym1 wrote

Nice story dude, but you are really r/lostredditors

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Torrall t1_is3nyrb wrote

Sounds like you need some help brother, too many people have been dumping stuff on you since you were too young, and not enough of it has been help. Dunno if you can afford therapy, but it would be good. If not, maybe a support group. Not saying what happened to you shouldn't cause you any pain but the way you describe it, it sounds intensely antagonistic directly towards you in a sense that usually isn't what's actually taking place.

I hope you take a break from dating as well as carrying others' problems and really really really focus on dealing with your own. Not so that you can help others carry theirs, not so you can go find a healthy relationship (though those tend to follow) but to put down some of the ones you've been holding on to yourself. You said yourself you're healing, and the way you talk about this shows you think more about emotions and their sources than most folk, but we all need a helping hand.

Anyways wrong subreddit fam.

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HydraKirby t1_is3o50r wrote

Lmao. The irony of posting this on the wrong sub makes this truly outstanding. OP is a mess and it's beautiful 😁

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