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KingKoopaBrowser t1_jcrcl9j wrote

So you know how sometimes you look at old photos and someone looks JUST like Keanu Reeves. Or someone talks in the same way. Or someone has similar hobbies?

These are all little pieces of what makes you - you.

Not in any kind of magical thinking of reincarnation or anything.

The whole “nothing really matters because there’s no authority on what “matters” beyond what we decide. It’s freeing.

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brooke512744 OP t1_jcrq1ov wrote

My husband gets told all the time he looks like Keanu Reeves 😂 I got a bit distracted from the rest of your comment at first. But anyways, I think that’s the thing I’m missing. Not knowing really what matters. I mean, family- yeah. But then like …..?????????????

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KingKoopaBrowser t1_jcteivr wrote

Yeah it’s hard. There’s no book no stone tablet that says “Jane is destined to do X”.

So you have to make your own path and it’s up to you to use your best judgement about what makes you happy and what you can tolerate.

So the pieces of me idea gives you a bit of a break.

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