Oh Yeah! I am strongly certain of what you say and heard it before. Nobody judged me in the gym. Never saw anybody judging another. Only coaches guiding people.

I was unlucky enough to have a family member who is a gym shark to try to put me down. But he is very one in a million exception. And a test for my mental endurance and optimism. But I am still strongly sure and agreeing with your post.

In case someone asks how he tried to put me down, once I was eating my chicken steaks. I used to be a scarce eater and my family knew it. And the bastard asked me "it isn't typical for you to eat meat". I said, things change. He asked "Is it because you changed or someone gives you ideas? Most certainly the second." I asked him a counter question, "What's wrong with eating chicken?", He said "Nothing." That's how I shut his mouth.

Out of spite of the hardship I faced, I remain an optimistic believer and share your point.