So in other words is ALL YOUR FAULT for not succeeding in life, your poor grades. . . . YOU, not the underfunded school system, getting robbed . . . YOU not the understaffed police system, house burned down. . . YOU, your miserable life . . . YOU, not your abusive parent getting drunk or high and beating you to an inch of your life, getting raped. . . YOU, is the dress you are wearing, maybe if you did not show so much skin or leave the house . . . but wait there was the relative that lives in your house. . . etc etc etc