I don’t tell people what I’m up too. I have the confidence in myself to work towards the goal and achieve it on my own. I don’t need other people to hold me accountable. I hold myself to account. Once I’ve accomplished the goal, I still do not tell people what I’ve accomplished. Instead they see my accomplishment and say, wow I didn’t know that’s what you were doing. I find people tell me what they want to do as a way to boost their own esteem, which is fine and I encourage and support them but I don’t need outside affirmations. I’d rather shock and awe the people with my accomplishment.