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HHS2019 t1_izev9dx wrote

How often when innocent flirting starts does your client know that it will proceed to an affair? Are any just friends with someone and something develops or changes or did both parties start off knowing what they wanted?

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Claudia-Delgado-LCSW OP t1_izeyvrq wrote

Most often, both parties are in denial anything could happen when innocent flirting starts. Majority of women I work with are monogamous and do not believe cheating is ever right. In situations that you described, one person usually has a “crush” on the other person. As they spend more time together the red flag is secrecy and sharing stories of personal problems.

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