"A woman of marriageable age" haha I love it! I can totally see the way it wouldn't feel like home. For me, going into a society like this sounds so appealing it would almost definitely be a one-way trip. Having read accounts from Ben Franklin of people choosing to live with the natives in the wilderness, they mostly wouldn't return, and if forced, would find a way to go back to the natives. Yeah, finding the right words to talk about the different societies is difficult lol. Thanks for the insight!!