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Mrs-O-Meurs t1_j8q6mxx wrote

I've had 9 pregnancies 7 miscarriages. One success and currently pregnant. I'm sure this is going to be my 7th miscarriage in a row cos I'm already bleeding. I'm exhausted and in pain and 40 yrs old. I'm done but my husband doesn't want a vasectomy. Any tips to get him over the line?

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Racechick20 t1_j8s3r8p wrote

Go get the pre-op for your tubal ligation.

After my spouse heard what it all entailed and how long I'd be down, he took one for the team and got it done.

However, he's a science/reason guy. I don't want to read into your situation, but my husband would take a little pain to keep me out of a lot of it.

There's also the option where you don't consent to sex.

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VoxClarus t1_j9lkrve wrote

Yeah. I get that there's no context here, but it seems like 10 painful pregnancies don't indicate a lot of respect for her wellbeing. Time to buy some condoms. Or pills. Or an IUD. Literally anything has to be better than that?

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Drunk_Histories t1_j9hx7go wrote

His body, his choice. Your body, your choice. Abstain from sex OR tell him to put a condom on. Least amount of effort for everyone, though I promise you he won't do that condom shit for very long.

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