Thank you for this.

We happily childfree people don’t ask people who want to have children “are you sure?” and we sure as hell don’t ask people with children “did you change your mind?” or even more mean, whilst a child is acting up, “do you still like having kids now?” or “have you changed your mind now?”.

The decision to have or not to have children is deeply personal and is no one’s business. Let people be who they are.