Submitted by chuckdooley t3_126mpy3 in LifeProTips
Next-Concentrate5159 t1_je9we6t wrote
... No, lol just no. I've worked hard and all I ever receive in reward was explotation and no raises or promotions. This is bad advice in 2023....
Companies want brown nosers, NETWORKING makes you successful, "trying hard" is stupid bad advice because no one notices the hard worker, they notice the noticable, which is the talkers.
chuckdooley OP t1_je9wwnb wrote
I knew that I’d get push back…and I’m fine with that, I was right there with you.
Let’s take the company itself out of it, because I agree that they’re exploitative, and they will squeeze every last drop out of you…I know it and I’ve experienced it.
My point is, if you’re stuck there, make the most of it…I’m not telling people to bust their ass for the company…I’m saying, bust your ass for yourself! Use the resources available to make you a better candidate and get out as soon as possible
It’s so easy to say, “they’re taking advantage of me and it sucks”….and it’s likely true…don’t stick around, don’t kill yourself for them…that’s all I’m saying.
Again, I’m not saying you’re wrong, I agree with you, but I don’t think you understood the point of my post
Edit: just to reiterate, none of this advice relates to the company, zero. I’m just acknowledging that resources are available to brownnosers and non-brownnosers alike…do one without the other, be selfish, it’s ok, they are too, and they won’t apologize for it and neither should anyone else
Sure, they’re going to benefit from your betterment, there’s nothing to do about that, but you’re just making yourself more and more marketable to where you can escape to a company that values you….or, you have the talents to take your skills on the road with you
chuckdooley OP t1_je9y6kr wrote
Also to say that this is “stupid bad advice” is just disrespectful. You are more than welcome to disagree, I welcome that, but let’s keep our criticism constructive.
I value your input because you’ve lived a different experience from me, and I will absolutely take it into consideration.
My post wasn’t perfect, but it is my experience and I assure you, I’m living proof that it has merit….just like your comments have merit because it’s your experience
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