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lifeaintsocool t1_jdkvus4 wrote

Do you have someone in your life that you're jealous of OP?

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the_original_Retro t1_jdkvpk0 wrote

There aren't any. Having people like you kinda depends on what you are doing.

"No matter what" means you might have just axe-murdered their entire family, for example. Hard for them to like you in that case.

Maybe describe what your personal challenges are with being likeable, and ask for advice on those instead.

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MarqueeOfStars t1_jdkw5r0 wrote

Have so much money?

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THETennesseeD t1_jdkzdqp wrote

If you have enough money, people may not like you, but they sure will pretend like they like you. So at least you will have the impression that everyone likes you?

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lthomasj13 t1_jdkvok1 wrote

Literally nothing. If you're an ass in both word and action why would they like you. If you want to take the time to show a change in words and actions then you can rebuild trust with someone. There might be some stuff that will make them be nice and pretend to like you, such as being the rich friend, but genuine affection has no magic trick.

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Itchy_Run_3805 t1_jdl33bd wrote

When you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say it.

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keepthetips t1_jdid35f wrote

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Blissful_Relief t1_jdlux1j wrote

It's a proven fact that people love hearing their own name. Try and use Thier name as often as you can. Like instead of just a good morning. Say good morning Jane.. That's the best I can do for you. But also keep in mind there is nothing you can say or do to get everyone to like you. IMHO. Good luck.

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MyNameIsSkittles t1_jdml9av wrote

Nothing. No one likes someone who's always trying so hard to be liked. Just be yourself and accept that not everyone will like you

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