I'd say it's all about having the energy and room for it. You need to have your basic needs met first, before you set out to achieve great things. Make sure you eat right, sleep right, go outside and do some sport. Make sure you have people around you to believe in you and support you. Get your head in order, maybe you're stressing about something you don't need to be. When that's met, you end up with an able body and mind, free head and some free time. Use some of that time to pursure what feels right for you and, over time, you'll get it. Just don't stop. It takes years to achieve success, and it's unreasonable to expect a 20-something to match a 50 year old.