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throwaway2727737 OP t1_iuiz9z7 wrote

Reply to comment by YellowOnline in LPT Request: How to stay unbothered about people hating on you & calling you things you are not by throwaway2727737

yes i do, unfortunately they are my relatives the amount of hate they have for me is unbelievable & it sometimes pains me the people i liked before have turned out like this

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dlongwing t1_iujd545 wrote

In these situations, the best thing to do is to cut off contact with them. You're not obligated to endure abuse, even from members of your immediate family.

If these are more distant relatives who only show up around holidays, then it's time to tell your family that you're not coming home for Thanksgiving (or whatever).

If you're living at home, it's time to make a plan to GET OUT. Secure enough financial resources to move out of that house. If you're under-aged, then you can make a plan you can execute on as soon as you're 18.

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