Likelionsdo68 t1_iujqgz0 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:12 PM

I’m sorry but I won’t make a single solitary concession because my friends decided to have kids. My family is a little different, but I made the decision to not have them so I don’t have to deal with them any more than absolutely necessary. I’m sure it’s frustrating to carry on with adult relationships when you do have children, but that’s a sacrifice they opted into. Not one I have to.

NoDiver2011 t1_iujr9fv wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:18 PM

You're missing the point lmao, they're saying be prepared to do what you've just written here, you may not make concessions but the people bring kids won't have a choice, so you have to be prepared to face the reality that you might not get to hang out with your friends as much as you want, and it's not fair to be pissed about it because of the obvious reality of the situation

[deleted] t1_iujrs9n wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:22 PM

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chamberofcoal t1_iujtds7 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:33 PM

They're literally saying to reconsider trips with parents and kids because you shouldn't have to make concessions.

Likelionsdo68 t1_iujtp3b wrote on October 31, 2022 at 9:36 PM

I don’t recall refuting anything they said. Just offering my perspective.