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psuedonymously t1_iyd7aeh wrote

LPT if you feel that uncomfortable with doing something don't let yourself be coerced or guilted into doing it anyway.

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audioragegarden t1_iydzsn5 wrote

You sure kicked a little hornet's nest of people who don't know you, aggressively shaming you to appear in photos they'll never see, taken by people they don't know.

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LiquidDreamtime t1_iyeaynn wrote

Right, I recently saw a TikTok where a photographer and a bunch of women were having a great time bagging on men who don’t like their picture being taken. It was gross.

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JCPRuckus t1_iydk6xw wrote

LPT growth is uncomfortable, especially personal growth. Get over yourself and get in the pictures... Just in general, not even considering what OP is talking about.

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[deleted] OP t1_iye22at wrote

Get over what? I don't fear being in pictures, I just don't want to.

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Laxberry t1_iye64h6 wrote

Why don’t you want to be in pictures?

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[deleted] OP t1_iye6jie wrote

So it's having a picture moment period. Like if someone randomly takes a pic of me, I usually don't care. But when someone is like "OMG let's stop everything so we can take a picture" it annoys me. Not too bad but kinda gets on my nerves

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JCPRuckus t1_iye5hmx wrote

>Get over what? I don't fear being in pictures, I just don't want to.

Whatever weird personal issue makes avoiding being in pictures seem like a worthwhile pursuit to you. This advice isn't for people who just don't actively pose for pictures. It's for people who actively avoid being in any pictures at all. Your friends and family are trying to create keepsakes and reminders of the time they spent with you, actively avoiding that is a dick move.

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[deleted] OP t1_iye67sy wrote

> Whatever weird personal issue

Damn do you just hate people who don't want to be in pictures. Because you are the one that seems like you have a weird personal issue against people that don't want to be in pictures

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[deleted] OP t1_iydjj9g wrote

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EvadesBans t1_iye7b30 wrote

You'll get over it, sweetie. You might notice that the person you're responding to is a stranger that has zero affect on your life.

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ArbolesFrutales t1_iydpsfu wrote

People take themselves too seriously man, stop overthinking things and get that picture taken for for heaven's sake!

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[deleted] OP t1_iydr2u6 wrote

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bRad420dankness t1_iydwkqz wrote

>that people care about you and want to see you develop and thrive, want to talk to you and help you improve

Well maybe they should show that while I'm alive instead of regretting not doing so when I top myself.

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psuedonymously t1_iydum40 wrote

Yes, exactly, don't let people bully you using this kind of ridiculous, over the top shaming language, excellent example, thanks!

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[deleted] OP t1_iye24ij wrote

It's a fucking picture. Who really is the triggered one here?

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