I’d rather people respect other’s boundaries, and work to find a compromise. If somebody really doesn’t want their picture taken, find a way to take pictures that respects their boundaries. Maybe have a picture of just them on their birthday, as a memory. Maybe they just don’t like the attention of pictures, but they’ll let you do a nonintrusive video.

Maybe, people will just have to find other, more appropriate, ways of memorializing someone, such as writing down the positive memories people have of them,