ibeecrazy t1_j1a7fec wrote on December 22, 2022 at 8:22 PM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: Don't spy on your SO to try to catch them cheating. If you can't trust them, just break up. by 5YOChemist

This sounds personal

FabulouslyFrantic t1_j1abw76 wrote on December 22, 2022 at 8:51 PM

I get it tho. The umpteenth time someone comes to me and just spews the same drama I'm going to tell them to politely f off.

If you're jealous but refuse to do anything about it, there's only so much sympathy I can offer before I tell you to either DO something to change your situation or leave me alone.

There's a difference between being a good friend and being an emotional dumping ground for someone who produces/invites drama.

NOTMYACCOUNT t1_j1adx6x wrote on December 22, 2022 at 9:05 PM

I'm so thankful for my friends not doing this shit

suckmyeyegoo t1_j1aghfm wrote on December 22, 2022 at 9:22 PM

I'm so thankful my friends can talk to me about whatever that want because I fucking love them.

I'm thankful I have real friends that let me talk about what's on my heart.

NOTMYACCOUNT t1_j1cl0s2 wrote on December 23, 2022 at 8:14 AM

Agreed. We are blessed

V4Vendota t1_j1aesx5 wrote on December 22, 2022 at 9:11 PM

It most definitely is. Not everyone wants to be roped into negative stupid shit. Especially these days.

ibeecrazy t1_j1afwj1 wrote on December 22, 2022 at 9:18 PM

100% and it takes way more effort to stay out of it, than should be required. Hope you survive the holidays! :)

tahqa t1_j1af5j1 wrote on December 22, 2022 at 9:13 PM

I think we found the person they're cheating with.