Kyrrdis t1_j1i4br0 wrote
If I had to do that it would INCREASE my stress, not bring about warm feelings. It would be like giving a report and getting evaluated on it. Maybe your family is not like mine...
adgjl65 t1_j1j1nuv wrote
It would increase mine too. Too much focus on me.
timmyboyoyo t1_j1imuny wrote
Why increase stress? Don't you know why you got some things for some people? Do you like them and feel comfortable?
Kyrrdis t1_j1ip59q wrote
No, I do not feel comfortable around all of them. I generally try to find something that’s acceptable. My family generally has more money than I do, and have everything they want, plus half my in-laws shun us because we are a same-sex couple. No small children are left to delight, just social obligation.
timmyboyoyo t1_j1ivame wrote
Ok is different if you don't feel as comfortable around them all, hope they learn to stop shunning, but if they do they don't deserve "gift" from you
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