>I would like this model to end up functioning like chatgpt. Not only to have it respond like a human/nlp but to also give me full technical answers, descriptions, and just simple specific answers to my questions. I will in the future update the model’s data/knowledge and also train it to do new tasks like image recognition and so on.

Based on your edit, I'm not sure you realize the scope of what you are trying to do. ChatGPT required almost 200 hundred billion data parameters, multiple NVIDIA A100s and many terrabytes of RAM to train.

You simply cannot expect to create a general purpose, human-sounding AI that does all of the things you expect to train it to do on a home computer, even if you were somehow a brilliant data scientist.