Submitted by Zachisawinner t3_10oefs5 in ManchesterNH
Coldest-Spinach t1_j6fz9z5 wrote
Reply to comment by The51stAgent in 22-year-old arrested after deadly shooting outside Manchester, NH bar by Zachisawinner
I understand what you're saying, but i disagree with your sentiments. good for you for not being an alcoholic, but alcoholics are humans with struggles too, and people should not be murdered over a stupid mistake or because they're struggling with addiction, and whether alpha male alpha female alpha nonbinary it doesnt matter, humans, alcoholics, sober, whatever the hell--- in general, need to do better.
Politikr t1_j6hvnek wrote
Like, by not sucker punching someone? IM NOT DEFENDING THE SHOOTER but this is all avoided by people making smarter decisions. This helpless victim mentality is irrational. They both made choices.
Coldest-Spinach t1_j6is9p6 wrote
How about we don't victim blame, thanks. I cant even fathom you saying this to the victims family and loved ones, what the actual fuck.
You can attempt to argue with me until you're blue in the face but I stand by what I said; we don't deserve to be brutally murdered for making a stupid mistake as our choice. We. Need. To. Do. Better.
Politikr t1_j6ka9sz wrote
Who, needs to do better? The guy who sucker punched him. Guy, if you want a society free from responsibility, you. Are. In. The. Wrong. Place.
Coldest-Spinach t1_j6kg0e5 wrote
Thats not what I said, lol. I said he did not deserved to be murdered for his mistake. A night in jail for assault? sure. Gunned down the way he did? No. being murdered for throwing a punch is not "taking responsibility" for what he did
But wow,,,,,
Mrs. Pouliot's cried through tears, "Why did they have to take him?"
Imagine the response "Welp, he threw a punch. Shouldn't have thrown a punch".
Ffs 🥴🥴🥴🥴 And I'll gladly stay in the wrong place then, I stand by what I said, keep tryin tho
Politikr t1_j6kwf8j wrote
I'm not saying he deserved to be shot. I'm saying that's one possible outcome, a rational adult person should consider. I do.
Coldest-Spinach t1_j6l405v wrote
Being a decent human and not murdering people is also a possible outcome... To live in fear of making any mistakes-- which is part of the human experience to do-- for fear of being murdered is no way to live.
It seems you live a very privileged life if this is how you think, and I implore you to instead of blaming victims of such heinous crimes to instead imagine if that was you, your friends, your father, your brother, your lover. Imagine yourself, at 24 years old, still learning, still growing, still navigating life, still trying to understand emotions and in one little burst of anger you impulsively throw a punch-- only for your whole entire life so far to be taken away, as well as prevent the rest of your life to happen. And suddenly you have somebody trying to decide what color urn you should be in or what to do with your ashes because you were way too young to even consider a will or aftercare with your remains.
I hope considering that, perhaps youd be able to humble yourself a bit more. You're so disproportionately viewing this it feels like you're talking about him as if you're the one who murdered him!! Have you no heart?
This isn't about you, it doesn't matter if you do or dont (and you already said you punched people before so LOL clearly you don't). I think maybe that's the problem with your comments... you're trying to revolve this around you.... but honey, it's not about you. It's about the victim and his loved ones, about the people who fear for their safety. The deceased and the vulnerable. Show some respect.
good bye and be well.
Politikr t1_j6kakg6 wrote
Mistakes have consequences. I blame everyone's parents here. But I'll tell you what, I hurt someone badly in a fight once. Punches aren't innocuous, and you need to do better. Jesus h Christ, who the fuck thinks like this!
Coldest-Spinach t1_j6kgflc wrote
How should I do better? I've neither punched somebody nor killed somebody, praytell how I should improve my nonviolent empathetic ways 😂
Politikr t1_j6kwlyo wrote
You could try not being a massive bleeding heart underdog supporter, who's support ultimately is against private firearm ownership.
Look, it you close your eyes while driving down the road, you might wreck. You pick a fight with someone, you might get hurt.
Coldest-Spinach t1_j6l3vb4 wrote
Can you explain what your comment means? I'm not quite understanding. I'm autistic so can you say it a little bit clearer?
Edit: actually, nevermind, I dont care
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