ls743 t1_jae12ue wrote on February 28, 2023 at 7:33 PM

Reply to comment by wutangjan in How do i tell the lead singer of my band that they aren’t that good? by MiniFestSam

He joined OP’s band, not the other way around

wutangjan t1_jae4rwo wrote on February 28, 2023 at 7:56 PM

The band is the bands band. Not OPs, or the leads, or mine or yours. That's why the band votes.

That said, the vessel that carries a band is the music and if I was in a band that wanted to kick me out and keep my music, playing it as their own, I would not go softly into the night.

ls743 t1_jaedtj2 wrote on February 28, 2023 at 8:54 PM

I don’t get the impression that’s what OP is trying to do, but okay. I also wasn’t trying to say the band belonged to OP, just that the front man joined after OP was already a member of said band. I assumed the “captain” you were referring to was the front man, implying it was his band that he started. Sorry if I misunderstood