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GrandNibbles t1_itxnjzc wrote

are you a stalker by any chance? no one believes this. stalkers should be caught and discouraged in every way from predatory behavior

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Invonnative t1_ity2d48 wrote

Eh I kinda believe this, for the same reason I don’t ask my partner who they think of when they masturbate. There are some questions you don’t want the answer to, and if there’s no harm then there’s no foul in my book. Watcher may have been a better term here, though, for connotation sake

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GrandNibbles t1_ityxxic wrote

"stalker" is inherently non-consensual watching with some kind of personal investment. it's an invasion of privacy at best, but can become worse if unchecked

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Due_Avocado_788 OP t1_itywqjj wrote

You guys aren't getting it lmao. Once they engage in predatory behavior they've been seen/ caught. Not caught as in arrested, caught as in found out

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