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notoriuslove t1_itjydaj wrote
Yeah, instead of lighting a smoke, now I’m lighting up my double chin
ThunderChild247 t1_itk6v59 wrote
Might be an unpopular opinion but it annoys me when people do that after sex. Less so if - a couple of minutes afterwards- the phone dings, but one of my exes would be on her phone pretty soon afterwards.
You start to feel like you should be apologising for keeping them away from their phone. It just feels a bit rude.
BloodyPommelStudio t1_itkig43 wrote
I hate that this is probably true, they both seem to have similar addictive properties.
Sikph t1_itkvdue wrote
Damn I couldn't disagree more. Only comparison I can see is "addiction" as another commenter said. A cigarette after sex, or say a meal is a method to relax and unwind while still being social with your partner. If you go straight to the phone that's equivalent to saying "I got what I want from this situation, now I don't need you anymore". I'd find that pretty disrespectful and insulting if it happened to me.
erikcastillo t1_itkwhv0 wrote
I sleep or get out of bed and do chores. No in between with this guy.
Norpthalomus OP t1_itl3nm4 wrote
Yeah I totally get that- my partner and I have been together a long time so it’s more of an “after we’ve cleaned up, gotten some water, gotten ready for bed, etc.”
I would be equally annoyed with the situation you’ve outlined
Lee1070kfaw t1_itl7sra wrote
I’m confused I can still buy cigarettes everywhere, what about vapes, cmon
Sobadatsnazzynames t1_itlb1rg wrote
I can share the cig after sex, I can’t go on someone’s phone with them 😂
Norpthalomus OP t1_itlc5tj wrote
Fair enough- unless you look at memes together 🤣
AlkaliPineapple t1_itljf8c wrote
That's why my bf and i have sex right before we head to sleep, it'd get awkward if we just get to our phones.
Norpthalomus OP t1_itlox1v wrote
I’ll take your word for it! Sounds like I’m missing out
hahawhatohokay t1_itlr808 wrote
my ex and i were into some kinky shit, and afterwards he'd get on his phone and start scrolling, leaving me to clean up by myself. aftercare is very important, everyone.
Shadpool t1_itmn533 wrote
As a smoker, we’ll smoke all day, there are 4 truly great cigarettes: The first one of the day, where you light it when your eyes aren’t even open yet; The cigarette after a satisfying meal; The cigarette along with a really good alcoholic beverage, be it beer or scotch; And the after-sex cigarette.
Acrobatic_Lead2578 t1_itmxor9 wrote
Exactly. You're not removing your attention from the other person when you light a cigarette; you're still fully present and responsive to them. Going on your phone is effectively shutting out the other person and is even worse if you're texting someone else/checking social media. It's like you're saying they're good enough to fuck but not to talk to.
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