Definitely ended up dating a narcissist when I told myself, "OK, let me date for personality and not looks this time."

That shit put me in a year and a half funk...

I didn't even know what a narcissist truly was until a few years ago, but finding out that is what she was, was a huge relief for my self esteem.

Everyone around me loves hanging around, and has good things to say if they aren't just screwing around. Then she comes in and had a bunch of bad shit to say, but that she believed I could change.

While I'm doing a bit shitty after, I had mutual friends share she's making a shit ton of money at a major tech company. It's what she loved the most, money and status.