Same for me. My ex wife, a terrible, narcissistic human. Miserable relationship the entire 10+ years. She cheated on me, took a lot of money and assets in the divorce and somehow left me with her debt on the way out. Still can’t fully trust in a relationship, don’t think I ever 100% will again. But the universe finally did allow me to find my perfect person, and my girlfriend is every kind of wonderful I could’ve wanted. Sucks to have had to go through a decade of pain, manipulation and trauma… but I’m glad I’ve finally found happiness.