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Whoppers_N_Fries t1_j9w8d6i wrote

There's no excuse for a parent losing a 2 year old. Idgaf

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KayakerMel t1_j9wc57b wrote

It completely depends on the situation. Little kids can be real escape artists. It can happen with responsible parents or neglectful ones.

My cousin, as a 2-year-old, loved letting himself out of the house. My aunt and uncle had a heck of a time keeping the front door secure from him (rental house so limited in what they could install). Sometimes they were sleeping, but sometimes it could be simply doing something in another room. They're great parents and were doing their best, but it's not realistic to have the kid glued to their sides 24/7. My aunt's horror story was finding him walking up from down the street, having let himself out while she was cooking dinner. It really only resolved when he grew out of the behavior.

The article says they think he got out of the house while his parents were sleeping after last being seen Thursday morning. It could be that the whole house was sleeping and he woke up and let himself out of the house. From the article, it doesn't sound like there's any charges against the parents for doing anything that put him at risk.

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Smokin_Weeds t1_j9x64o4 wrote

It’s kind of a fucked up story. He got dropped off to his mother and another person who were both asleep - the person dropping him off didn’t wake anyone up. The mom lied and said he had only been missing for an hour before she called the cops but he had actually been missing for 4 hours before she called. Terrible supervision of a child.

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KayakerMel t1_j9x6eod wrote

Oof. Definitely a lot of mistakes by the adults.

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Smokin_Weeds t1_j9x6llx wrote

Avoidable for sure. A neighbor saw him outside by himself playing with dogs and then he just kept driving away to the gas station. Idk if I see a 2 year old or a 5 year old whatever age playing alone in a front yard I’m gonna sit there for a second until I see an adult come out with them and if that doesn’t happen then go knock on the door to see wtf is up.

I’m so glad he was found safely though.

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sgrams04 t1_j9wf533 wrote

Ah, someone with no kids commenting on parenting.

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PresOfTheLesbianClub t1_j9yn1q8 wrote

According to the mom the kid wandered off at 10:40 while she was asleep. It would take more mental gymnastics to make that an ok situation for the kid than to jump to the conclusion that’s a bad situation for the kid to be in the first place.

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