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business2690 t1_jbmoooc wrote

Reply to comment by CompactOwl in Where there's gender equality, people tend to live longer by LifeTableWithChairs

yeah. the problem is people seem to be unable/unwilling to have the hard society-level conversations needed to fix these issues.

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what good is it having an awesome fair and progressive society if the birth rate falls and the society crumbles.

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meanwhile places where women are being treated like used chewing gum, ladies are having kids out the wazoo.

yeah their countries are shitholes... but they are full of people!

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gotta be a way to respect the ladies, respect the lgbtq++++, educate anyone who wants it, tolerate other people gods, and still produce enough people so you don't japanify yourself.

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aardvarkbjones t1_jbnx257 wrote

Look, people don't want to talk about this, but across the board, when education and opportunity go up for women, birth rates go down.

It turns out having and raising kids is really hard. Pregnancy takes a huge toll and children offer offer little personal benefit in economically advanced societies. When given other options, a lot of women just won't want to do it. Or if they do have kids, it'll be fewer.

I say this as a women who has never wanted kids. Pregnancy looks like something out of a nightmare to me.

We need to have an economic model that allows for fewer children moving forward.

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business2690 t1_jbo62al wrote

"fewer children moving forward" ........ strongly disagree.

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but you have every right to your opinion.

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also I am a man and yeah..... pregnancy looks like 0 fun.

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everytime I have gotten a woman pregnant I think.... sucks to be a chick.

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business2690 t1_jbqc3l5 wrote

..... everytime I have gotten a woman pregnant .....

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what about that is offensive?

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business2690 t1_jbuak7c wrote

not casually friendo.

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not casually.

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reword it as fits your sensibilities ; the point remains.

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not fun to squeeze a watermelon out of a vagina. not to mention 9 months of unrestrained fattening.

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Nope Nope Nope. i'll stick to paying for the whelps and other daddy duties. way better.

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CompactOwl t1_jbnrjb5 wrote

I think the main problem is that for men, historically, being the one raising kids is looked down upon. This still lingers. And for women, being the one staying at home is now looked down upon. Just see how some people are frowned upon for traditional roles. We just need to be okay with anyone doing his life, no matter if a man wants to stay at home raising kids, a women wanted a strong career path or a woman wanting to stay home and let the men earn the money. All those three things are not equally accepted in society. But they should be.

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business2690 t1_jbo5s5k wrote

agree.

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but the finances of a single income situation are FARRRRR different from dual income.

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how do you account for that?

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CompactOwl t1_jbo9i3a wrote

In what way? I am not sure I understand what you are asking.

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business2690 t1_jbqcb68 wrote

the women picking a traditional role are at an economic disadvantage to the ladies working 9 to 5 with no kids.

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CompactOwl t1_jbqd4ev wrote

Yes. That is true.

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business2690 t1_jbqygpi wrote

how do we fix that?

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Should an educated women choose to put herself at an economic disadvantage???

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answer: No.... thus lower birth rate.

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this is the core issue that must be fixed

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