Aiden, it's really time you got a real job instead of sitting on your ass all day while your wife makes sure you and your kids have a roof over your heads, medical insurance, and bills are paid. And you need to be more thankful for her efforts to support the family rather than go about cheating on her with that ex cop. If you don't get your shit together she is going to realize you're the leech in the family and finally kick you out.