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murthivelli123 t1_j1avg2y wrote

A lot of these suggestions are not good first date ideas. Keep it simple. Drinks at a bar. Somewhere low-key where you can enjoy each other's company.

If it works out then you can continue your night with dinner or plan a future outing. If it doesn't then you can get the check and bounce.

But don't trap you and your date with something elaborate or extravagant for a first date!

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Classifiedgarlic t1_j1cji0s wrote

Also drinks- dinner at a nice but casual place is good because it gives both parties an easy out. If the night is going uncomfortably saying “wow great dinner bye” is always a good way to end the evening

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MissiontwoMars t1_j1cp48b wrote

Yeah you’re overthinking it. Drinks and see if you hit it off. You’ll know pretty quick honestly and that’s why you do drinks not dinner so if you’re not hitting it off you can make a clean exit.

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sportsDude t1_j1e9gib wrote

Agreed. The ideal first date is a place you can get to know each other. Make it about knowing if there is a spark with the other person, and dont feel like you're trapping them in

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