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OGkateebee t1_j3no83z wrote

Not a good first date. You want to be getting to know each other not walking through exhibits. Also if you realize it’s not a match early, it’s a long date to then still have to do the whole aquarium and dinner. Plus it’s pretty pricey which also sets up a perceived investment that makes it weird if it’s not a good match. Save it for once you’ve run out of early date ideas and have gotten in a rut.

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ZealousidealGuest276 OP t1_j3nskx1 wrote

I am in a rut lol idk anymore

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OGkateebee t1_j3nw930 wrote

I meant when as a couple you have gotten into a date rut

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ZealousidealGuest276 OP t1_j3nyovv wrote

Oh I’m in a dating rut 💀 my judgment was clouded but I get what you’re saying

So just drinks somewhere? but that feels boring I feel like I need something to take away from any awkwardness or to provide some context to a convo

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madefromdoge t1_j3r3xye wrote

Do you have a day of the week in mind ? Local show / live music might do the trick. Start with a beer or a coffee shop , after you break the ice invite to the show . Distraction achieved lol. Plenty of great underground or local music in the city. If your a liquid courage user or not , I'll be forthcoming in saying I use to great drunk to feel comfortable talking to woman . I find that a Real conversation bout life my goals my ambitions and being able to listen has gotten me wayyy farther. I think my fiancee would agree.

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