Dragon blood series has romance from both perspectives and with more than one couple actually. Listened first 3 books out of 8 so far. Dragon blood has a rare spin in fantasy as it takes place in a universe with similar technology with end of 1800 start of 1900 with some real technologies replaced by magical techniques.
Another day, another recommendation for Mary E Pearson's Dance of Thieves and Vow of Thieves, fantasy romance duology told in dual POV from male and female protagonist's perspective.
Lions of Al Rassan. I haven't read the others by Kay yet but they have a great reputation. Lions grabbed my attention and hit my heart. It is two thirds male perspective.
For more fully male perspective, the Dragon and the George
rdtthoughtpolice t1_jdyz8pb wrote
The Wheel of Time is famous for this, by Robert Jordan